Christmas Eve. Fellowship with friends at Cheddars. The talk turns to relationship words. Words of appreciation to each other for how much the other means. One is amazed at the changes in himself and his approach to life - to people.
But I say he's in the flow of what God is doing in this season. Community.... relationship.
Change on the outside requires change on the inside.
Transformation.
It is God who transforms us by His Spirit.
Driving home Larry and I are talking about community. And I have that revelatory moment.
Don't define it!!! Don't nail it down!!! Don't do anything that would give IT form and structure.
The natural human tendency is to do that very thing. And we must not. As Larry, reading this over my shoulder just said, it is defined by the moment. The present moment. Not for us to control. Not for us to contrive. Detriech Bonhoffer said "Those who live with/for the dream of community will destroy it". (Not an exact quote. That's me quoting Larry quoting Detriech.) But that's the point and the challenge before us in this season. Can we just "be" relationship with each other or do we have to do something to try to make an earthly show of a heavenly reality.
Thank you Jesus for that little reminder in my spirit last night. Back to my benchmark --- Am I being lifegiving to those you have connected me to - to the one in front of me, unkown? Am I just caring about them, not trying to fix them or to bring them "up to" something that I think is the standard that all should follow? Arrogance. Lord, it is not in my power to do this but it is in my power to choose to allow you the expression you choose at that moment. It is in my power to choose to love and to care and to respect and honor and if I will choose it you will empower me. It may not be in my power to knit my heart with others but it is in your power to do that knitting if I will but choose to allow you to demolish my defences.
Transformation.
A new place in the kingdom. "Come, follow me", Jesus said over and over to his disciples.
Ann,
ReplyDeleteI read your thoughts on community and it resonnated with my spirit.
I think you're onto something. Oh, to have know this 5 years ago.